How To Overcome The Breakup Situation?

 Sushil Rudra

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We have to face so many troubles and sufferings in course of our life – journey and of course, no one is perfectly fine and happy in this materialistic world. Therefore, it is an urgent need how to overcome the breakup situation?

In fact, each and everyone has to face a breakup or hurt in life. But at that moment, we have nothing to do. Moreover, we couldn’t express outside of the family.

Though we desire to have a successful life in all spheres of our lives. But we couldn’t able to reach the goal perfectly. Thus, we become disrupted mentally and socially.

Because, real-life, which we lead in everyday life is very important to us, and it’s related to our food and lodging, education, the safety of our

lives, savings and so on.

So there is uncertainty and also competition in this regard.

Hence,these are all our primary needs. Without all these, we have to face trafficking and suffering a lot. And as a result, we couldn’t get success. But we have to make an effort for our sweet home, food and lodging for survival.

Other than all these requirements, we live in a society. So we have some duties and responsibilities for the betterment of it.

But some can maintain it and some aren’t. So the progress of society is not possible.

As a result, we are thus having societal bandages, so that we try to maintain values and ethics through our activities and behaviours.

So when it’s not maintained properly, a mental and societal misapprehension takes place.

∆∆ The Breakup Situation / /WORDS ARE NOT SAFE

As a result, our prime problem in this modern era is that we are not contented with our success in the profession.

Why words Are Not Safe in life and love?/

Besides, we are not satisfied with our life partner. It may be husband or wife, or lovers of both sexes.

Recently I have read a poetry blog of a young woman , and there she has written about the breaking up of their relationship.

∆∆ The Breakup Case :1 The young lady is unable to forget the words of betrayal to whom she loved profoundly, but being rejected she is spending in an unhappy life.

Naturally, she is under stress and even her family members are not happy.

This kind of incidents is not supported. Obviously, It’s a matter of an unhealthy mind. In such a case, we see a lack of values and ethics.

Hence, we must not support it. After a long term relationship or friendship, the guy suddenly cut off the relationship.

But it is unjust. Under these circumstances, it is needed how to overcome the breakup situation.

Read more : ” Why words are not safe in life and love ” –

Either it’s the symbol of week or ill – state of mind. Or they’re running for a better option. In this respect, she should be strict to her principles and never get lost at all.

During this situation the family members need su ort for the girl. Thus they would be able to overcome this situation.

That’s why, there are so many incidents like this. Occasionally it happens in our surrounding. And sometime, they are to separate with each other.

As a result, one becomes perplexed and are to face a mental illness like depression, stress and strain, melancholic distress etc.

Hence, We have to face this kind of small but serious troubles in our lives.

How to overcome breakup situation?/ /Couples


Now the question is how to overcome this type of awkward situation. We are not only individually affected, besides, our parents at the same time are also confronting this situation.

∆∆ CASE NO:02

For instance, I know an incident like this which recently occurred in my friend circle. They are my family friends and they’re arranging their daughter’s wedding.

The young man is a good service holder. And their daughter is also working in IT sector in a good position.

So, both the parties are talking about the negotiations and advanced a lot into a final decision too.

In the meantime, 3 months already passed and almost every day both the two ( boy and girl) over the phone were busy discussing their future dreaming. 

Suddenly the elder sister of the young guy and her husband informed them that they do not agree on this negotiation. What a strange!

So this is a bolt from the blue to them. And they’re not ready for this. I think this breakup made them unhappy. So how to overcome the breakup situation?

Perhaps they don’t want a woman who is engaged in a profession. Therefore, it has a massive impact on the family as well as on their daughter. So They are highly shocked. So it’s not expected at all.

∆∆ DUTY OF A GUARDIAN. ( How to overcome the breakup situation?)

I am very soft hearted person. Hence, I feel very dejection when I listen to and face such conditions.

As a guardian or a parent , I couldn’t stay indifferent having learnt that kind of incidents.Consequently, I become angry.

But I try to make them understand that don’t take this matter seriously. Therefore, It’s the life . Let see better guy for your daughter. /Come forward one step

Perhaps it’s the wish of God , etc and etc. However, This is a regular feature in our society.

∆∆ SO, Here are the rules:

Firstly, Love each other, but take time to understand each other . Though it’s very difficult to see the inner world of the individual. Even after spending a lot of time in

Secondly,  Don’t believe in sweet words of the lover or partner . So enjoy the words, but try to familiar with his difficulties.

Third, never forgot your personality . Whenever it’s being hurt , you then cautiously step your feet . So, never sacrifice your personality in virtue of getting him.

Because time indeed has changed. Like Radha, you should not sacrifice everything, especially your personality.

Fourth,  Don’t live together before marriage. Indian, mainly Hindus , maintain holiness and sanctity before marriage.

Read more : /Repentance in life

So both man and woman should follow up with the principles in respect to this matter. Furthermore, we should have to be more practical.

Fifth,  As we are human beings, not animals, so we should be careful about discrimination. Though we have some biological demands, we should act according to social customs. But sometimes, we forget it and spending like a married couple. So, it was right.

Moreover, we should be prepared to overcome the breakup situation.

Hence, we never crossed the borderline. And our motto is to achieve a higher state of mind. The more we will be enriched in this path, the more we must have reached nearer tGod.

Therefore, this positive state of mind can eliminate the distraction.

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Sixth, the ultimate goal is to reach out to the highest state of mind.

Seven, If we attain this state of our thoughts, of course, we will be freed up from all the worldly hazards. Otherwise, you have to face the sufferings.

Eight, In ancient times, man used to spend in the house of Guru. There he learnt and practised the rules and activities of worldly affairs. They also maintained the stage of celibate life.

But we are now devoid of it. Our education system or curriculum don’t entertain this aspect. On the contrary, we memorise some facts which are not related to our daily life. So when we enter into conjugal life we have to face such problems.

But in the ancient era, the disciples also used to learn there how to overcome the breakup situations which take place in life.

Finally, the last word is how to overcome the breakup situation?

Eventually, both parties should come front to front to take a final decision.

It’s fact that when a girl is betrayed by his loving one it’s not her fault. Because She has a pure heart which she gives him.

But the guy is heartless as well as brute and clumsy minded. So, he is not, in the true sense, a perfect man or a human being. Rather, he has lacked of some compassionate qualities.

Of course, both of them didn’t know how to overcome the breakup situation. So sometimes mishap takes place in the society.

So, I think truly that each and everyone here should glorify to his or her heart. And this is vital rule about how to overcome the breakup situation.(

Moral: Don’t trust the rouges.

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Nature And Mind

Dr Sushil Rudra / Nature and Mind
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Where the mind’s free, the body’s delicate”. – William Shakespeare

“The mind is it’s own place, and in itself Can make a heaven of Hell , a hell of Heaven.” – John Milton ( Nature and Mind /

” Mental slavery is mental death , and every man who has given up his intellectual freedom is the living coffin of his dead soul.” – R G Ingersoll

The afternoon of my city is very calm and quiet. Because most of the city dwellers used to take rest sometimes after a heavy lunch. I have been observing it for decades. So, a pin-drop silence prevails everywhere like midnight. I’m busy with my Nature and mind .

Secondly, in winter season, people are captivated by the house under the quilt. And the pandemic situation makes it massively isolated by which we are not happy at allI don’t like to sleep after lunch. Therefore, sitting in an armchair in the Veranda, I am looking to and fro and thinking about Nature.

Some tall tree of shal – segun and other trees are standing up keeping their head to the sky . Gentle winds touch their leaves so lovingly and its move with joy . Even shivering with the cold blow . How much joyously they are living in this cold season. In the meantime, I am to find out a tall man who is our home servant.

Oh Nature! How Big You Are!

He has been working in our house for a long time since my birth. Rup Singh is his name. Unmarried Rup Singh is an illiterate person having no burden of the family on his shoulder. He is returning to our house from the market purchasing some betel leaves and its spices. He used to have it.

This is only his fad to masticating spicy betel leaves. Rup Singh is indifferent in any circumstances. I never saw him be getting restlessness. He is just like a tall tree never bend his head in worldly affairs and passions.

Nature’s Impact On Mind : Can trees think ?

Can tree thinks like us ? Is there any sorrow and agony to their lives? I feel they’re very spontaneous in its entire life. When it grows up and gradually reach in full youth , it looks heavenly beautifulIn spring they are dressed in green leaves and moon -like flowers. So it seems they are enjoying their lives with joy .

Nature looks like a Queen. Are they talking about one’s love to another ? Don’t know whether they have any feelings of sorrow or joy ! Sometime I think , like Rup Singh our surrounding Nature , all these tall trees are indifferent in joy and sorrow . If they could have a mind like us , then they can feel their good and bad

Hence, Nature and mind has been massively exploited and tortured owing to our civilization. This indifferent Nature never protests against this treachery. But gradually they are becoming conscious and trying to defend themselves when they’re kept at bay.

Human being can think :Nature and Mind

But we are human beings having wisdom within us. If I don’t have any domestic duty, and not going to purchase raw vegetables or medicine in the market, I couldn’t stay in silence for a moment. Because we have a mind who is all in all in my life. Our mind never stops thinking until we get to sleep.

So what we could, the steady and firm tall tree couldn’tThey couldn’t imagine what we could. They shelter us in the hotty summer. Because weary Passer-by can take rest for a while under its shed.

Hence, If trees are not, we can’t survive without the oxygen that they produce. Moreover,with their gentle summer breeze, we are getting the touch of Mother.

They’re with us from the very beginning of civilization. So,  You can say that they’re our beloved companions after snow – era or Himyuga . But being a man we have denied their friendship and killed them to enjoy our comfort.

Nature didn’t betray us, but we did. Hence, let rule the demonic mind, and bring up the godly mind which is an urgent need of the time.(Rabindranath Tagore in depressions/


So don’t hurt nature. They are our best friends. Without nature we can’t stay a moment. Trees, rivers, green fields, village ponds where water Lilis are looking towards the sky. I p

  1. DEBASIS NAYAK · December 14Great photography…👌
    Nature is so beautiful. 😍
    The rainbow too looks great! 🌈LikeSushil Rudra 
  3. My pleasure sir,
  4. rkronther,Your posts are very spiritual and inspirational.

Bengal Election 2021: An unprecedented battle

Bengal Election 2021 : an unprecedented battle is going to happen in West Bengal . This election is undoubtedly a ever – remembered incident in the political history . Because the battle is of two rivals between TMC and BJP.

You know that before this election some popular leaders of TMC has left ministry as well as party . And they joined under the flagship of BJP. Now the fight is going to happen in between TMC Supremo Mamata Banerjee and the newly joined in BJP, formerly Minister of West Bengal government, Sri Subhendu Adhikary. They are fighting for Nandigram Assembly with each other. It is the most attractive and amazing battle no doubt.

Three days before Mamata Banerjee submitted nomition to contest against BJP candidate, Subhendu Adhikary in Nandigram Constituency. Today , Mr. Adhikary has also submitted nomition before the SDO office in Nandigram, Mednipur along with Tapasi Nandi , the another BJP candidate contesting in another constituency of this district.

Mamata Banerjee wounded that day when she was returning from the temple. So she had to return Kolkata for treatment of foot injury. She told that some 4 to 5 persons intentionally hurt her and there is an wounds in her left foot and also on the frontal head. She confessed that the injury is serious .

She is now under treatment in Kolkata SSKM hospital and according to hospital authority she is at present okay . Actually Mamata Banerjee was in the front seat . And opening the door she was making social connections with the crowds. Therefore, the accident took place .

As ill luck would have it , there was an iron post on the way. When her bullet proof Scorpio slowly moving by the roadside , then the accident took place.

Opposite of the place where the accident took place, there is a sweet shop. Having collected some ice and water and using it for primary treatment the wounded leader returned to SSKM, though she previously mentioned that she will stay there at Nandigram.

.However, after this incident , TMC leaders: MPs Saugata Roy , Partha Chatterji, Derek Obroy, Dr Kakali Ghoshdastidar, Satabdi Roy reached to Kolkata commission office And They submitted their grievances to the election commissioner . They lodged a complain there . They said that this incident was not an accident. It is rather a pre-planned incident. The BJP did it to assaulting to Mamata Banerjee. Besides they also complained against the EC that they didn’t provide sufficient police and guards for her safety.

The Election authority informed the TMC leaders that it’s not their responsibility to give security to any candidate. The Home Ministry of the State government is to provide security to the chief minister.


But the TMC MPs are not happy in this reply and so a group of leaders went to Delhi Election office to complaint against this incident . They demand of the investigation of the incident which is ridiculous. The public, when interviewed by the press media, told that it happens accidentally. There is no conspiracy . When she waved her hand to the crowd, suddenly the half – opened door being obstructed by a roadside iron, hurt her leg.

Today the Doctors released Chief Minister from the hospital. Although he is not totally sound in body. She didn’t want to stay at hospital. So, she returned to her home at kalighat.


She can’t kill her valuable time. TMC supremo is the only candidate to campaign against BJP. She is determine to propaganda in all assemblies . So it is Herculean task to reach out to every constituencies from east to west and south to north Bengal.

Shuvendu is already campaigning. No doubt, he is a competent candidate in Nandigram. Moreover, he is a local. So he has some extra benefits.

This Bengal Election 2021: an unprecedented battle is going to happen mainly between the BJP and TMC. Most people are wanting a change in government. Corruption Is almost at every level of the party. They are the TMC leaders from MP, MLA to Panchayat level’s leaders.

Common people don’t realise how these leaders are making money and properties. They are taking cut money from poor people. Like Aamphan assistance, poor people had to provide 75%( 15 thousands) of money to TMC Counsellors and they have got only 25% (5 thousand). This is very unjust.

Besides, her nephew, MP Abhishek Banerjee is not clean like Mamata Ji. We came to know from genuine sources that he managed lots of expensive properties within his MP tenure.

Mr. Abhishek is now 32/33 . But He has managed plenty of flats and houses of crores Rs. . Even he uses a car of the high cost. Recently CBI went to his house to interact with his wife. They are sure that the coal scam money has gone to his wife and sister in law’s bank account.